Wives, Waves, and A Good Day on The Ocean

Marriage, or any relationship for that matter, can be compared to the waves that you see on the ocean. There are some days when our marriage is going along smoothly just like a nice calm day on the ocean. We think that it is utopia and we enjoy the bliss this day can bring. But then a wind comes along and blows the water around and soon we have waves getting bigger and bigger. These waves can be compared to the emotions and disagreements that two people can find effect their relationship. Some days the water can be quite choppy! And we wonder how we will make it though. You may find yourself wondering "How can I make my wife happy?" There are seasons on the ocean....ones where the clouds come in and stay for days and weeks on end, but then there are refreshing rains and lots of sunshine at other times.

I guess what I am trying to say is that it is natural for there to be ups and downs, stormy weather, calm times and everything in between in a marriage. Don't despair because things might not be going as smoothly today as they were yesterday. That time can come again. You and your wife can be happy again.

If you would like help to get you and your loved one through the stormy times click here for help and great ideas to make your wife happy and yourself happier.

Oh! Oh! Watch out! Here comes a breaker! Hold on! (lol!)

Chuckle time!

Dispatcher: 9-1-1 What’s the nature of your emergency?
Caller: My wife is pregnant and her contractions are only two
minutes apart
Dispatcher: Is this her first child?
Caller: No, you idiot! This is her husband!

LOVE ME WHEN I LEAST DESERVE IT BECAUSE THAT IS WHEN I MOST NEED IT.
- Swedish proverb

Latest headline from the UK

Want to keep the wife happy? Be miserable or risk divorce.

Its an interesting little article that you can find here.

But if you really want to know how to make your wife happy, click here.

Happy Valentine's Day! All you men out there who want to please your wife know that this is a special day for the women of North America and beyond! Its the perfect day for all you men who are wondering "how to make my wife happy".

I will tell you that you don't have to spend money on your wife and that your actions are the important thing. And having said that I also have to say that my wonderful husband bought me a dozen long stemmed pink roses 4 days before Valentine's Day for me to enjoy all week long and then today he gave me a wonderful card that brought tears to my eyes. He handed it to me along with the cup of coffee he had made for me to start my day.

Very romantic? I think so! My husband knows how to make his wife happy!

He doesn't like me buying him cards and presents so I didn't. It was hard because I like to do that, but I knew that he wouldn't be pleased. And not receiving anything did please him. And I got a hug for it!!!

Supper tonight? Something romantic at home where we both want to be - together with no disturbances!

Important fact to remember: what is it that your wife wants to make her happy? What will make a woman happy is having a husband or lover who thinks about what she wants and doing those things that she has told you she likes.

I hope your Valentine's finds your relationship in good health and the two of you finding ways to please each other.

And don't forget, if you need more ideas, just click here to take you to a great many more concrete ideas that you can use to make your wife happy.

Valentine Thoughts to Text

I found these quotes on a website this evening and thought I would share some of them with you. Why not text your wife with one of these each day until Valentine's Day?

"If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you've made me smile, the entire evening sky would be in the palm of my hand."
-Unknown

"You don't marry someone you can live with - you marry the person who you cannot live without."
-Unknown

"Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction."
-Saint-Exupery

"A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous."
-Ingrid Bergman

"Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."
-St. Augustine

"To love another person is to see the face of God."
-Les Miserables

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition."
-Alexander Smith

"The richest love is that which submits to the arbitration of time."
-Lawrence Durrell

“Very small degree of hope is sufficient to cause the birth of love."
-Stendhal

"There is no remedy for love but to love more."
-Thoreau

"Love cures people - both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it."
-Dr. Karl Menninger

"To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best."
-William M. Thackeray

"If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with..."
-Unknown

"Some love lasts a lifetime. True love lasts forever."
-Unknown

"If love is great, and there are no greater things, then what I feel for you must be the greatest."
-Unknown

"The Eskimos have 52 words for snow because it is so special to them; there ought to be as many for love!"
-Margaret Atwood

"Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart."
-Unknown

And don't forget to check out my website for all you husbands "How to Make Your Wife Happy and Yourself Happier"

Secret to a Long Marriage

A husband asks his wife,
'You never argue when I get mad at you.
How do you always control your anger?'
'I clean the toilet,' she replies.
'How does that help?' he asks.

'I use your toothbrush.'